Release shame, embrace pleasure, create intimacy
It feels very scary when you first decide to explore sex. Sex is a topic clouded in so much shame, secrecy, and bucket-loads more shame, that to explore it as a woman can feel overwhelming.
“Will I be called, “A slut?” or a “crazy nympho?”. What if my family find out? What if my faith community finds out?!”
From the first time you tentatively order a vibrator online, to ordering your first book on tantra, to trying your first workshop. It can feel overwhelming and you have no idea where to start.
Here’s what I believe:
When you know your body intimately and know how to give yourself pleasure.
When you love your body exactly as it is, no matter what shape or size it is.
When you love your vulva and can name all the parts without going red in the face.
Your whole world changes, both inside and outside of the bedroom.
Wherever you are in your journey right now, you may have no idea how you could become that juicy, sensual woman who’s completely comfortable with her body and joyfully runs to bed.
If you’re on this page, I want to give you a hug and say a big “well done” for landing on here.
Your path here probably wasn’t easy and I guess you’re feeling confused and nervous about what to do next. Admitting that you are struggling sexually, that there is a problem and you need help can feel very painful, so I want to acknowledge the big step you’ve taken, just now.
You’re here because you know that there is more to sex than what you’re currently having.
You’re worrying if you’re “normal”, and frantically asking yourself why your body isn’t responding the way you want it to.
You’ve got the rest of your life in order: your career, family, finances, staying healthy, now it’s just this final piece of the puzzle… you want to start really enjoying sex again.
Everyone else is having multiple orgasms, marathon lovemaking sessions and are confident lovers, right?
And you want this too.
You WANT to feel confident taking your clothes off with the lights on without worrying about your partner seeing your wobbly bits.
You WANT to actually look forward to going to bed. You want to feel your knickers getting wet and the fluttering of desire at the thought of pouncing on your lover.
You DREAM of getting back that tearing-eachothers’-clothes-off-and-falling-onto-the-floor-in-a-hot-sweaty-mess that you used to have.
You don’t want to feel like you have to act like a porn star in bed; you want to experience real pleasure where you don’t have to fake it.
What’s more, you KNOW that your body is capable of SO much more pleasure than what you’re currently experiencing, which feels just kind of “meh” right now.
“Everyone else is having amazing sex, so why can’t I??”
Admitting that sex is difficult for you and that you need help isn’t easy. You may feel ashamed and like a failure as a woman because you just don’t enjoy sex anymore.
Before I tell you more about me, I want to let you into a little secret:
You think that everyone else is having epic sex, every day, with multiple orgasms? It’s a lie.
Yes, sex everywhere. You know that SEX SELLS, You can go and buy some gorgeous lingerie and a rampant rabbit. You can read “10 tips to give him amazing oral sex” or “5 secrets to blow her mind in bed”. You can try watching porn to see if it gives you a tickle.
I would hazard a guess that at least 75% of people feel unhappy and unsatisfied in the bedroom. That’s 3 out of 4 people.
This is how I can help you
Hi, I’m Lucy.
Because I want to help you to have it all.
Love. Passionate Sex. Intimate Connection. Playfulness. And lots and lots of pleasure.
My clients tend to identify as creative, spiritually minded women who are free spirits. They’ve usually done work in therapy before, but they never worked with sexuality.
This is for you if:
- You feel about as far away from feeling sexy and sensual as you are from turning into a giraffe!
- You feel confused about your body because you received negative messages about sex, sexuality, and your body growing up.
- You feel like the spark has disappeared in your relationship and you want it back!
- You and your partner are constantly fighting because you’re struggling with sex.
- Your needs and desires go to the bottom of the pile of your never-ending “To-Do” list.
- You know that you want to experience MORE pleasure, MORE ecstasy, MORE desire… just basically MORE, but have no idea where to start or what to do first.
- You’re experiencing pain and discomfort on penetration.
- You’re struggling to be a sexual woman after having kids and you feel you’ve lost your identity.
- You’ve already done the work in therapy, now this is the final hurdle you want to work through.
- It’s now or never. You’re totally ready to transform your relationship with your body and your pleasure.
This is where the Ultimate Sex Goddess Program will help you.
We’re going to work together to radically transform your sex life, your relationship and how you feel about your body. We’ll be working either face to face in Brighton or Eastbourne, United Kingdom, or via Zoom if you’re further afield.
I’m not going to just give you “6 sex tips to blow his mind”, tell you to just go buy some sexy lingerie or show you some acrobatic new sex positions to “get you in the mood”.
Why? Because you can do a Google search and find this already, and I bet you’ve tried this, too.
I’m also not going to be standing in your bedroom, actually watching you have sex or force you to do anything that is a firm “NO” for you.
The process may feel a little strange, and I will ask you to gently push your comfort zones and bounce your sexual boundaries. We’ll be diving into areas that usually nobody talks about. I’ll need you to be brutally honest with me, and for you to be willing to feel vulnerable.
Because that’s where the healing occurs.
What the process will include:
We’ll dive into what’s really blocking you from experiencing the sex, love and intimacy you really, truly desire.
We’ll be working with all of the parts of you.
Here’s how it works:
I work for either 3 months or 6 months.
We’ll spend 90 minutes each fortnight getting crystal clear on where your bedroom blocks are, and then give you fun and most importantly, actionable tools to transform them.
Sessions are completely tailored to you and your needs, you set the pace. We could be doing breathing exercises, body-based exercises, movement, journaling, artwork, checking out resources or even a field trip!
Everything will be fully clothed, so wear whatever feels comfy. There won’t be any weirdness, I’ll be your friend and companion who’s going to cheerlead you on your path of sexual self-discovery. No questions or secrets are off limits, nothing is going to freak me out and I will definitely NOT judge you.
Awesome, right? Think of me as your sexual fairy godmother, here to give you the gift that you’ve actually always had all along: Your joy, bliss, and juiciness!
I take on new clients on a very limited basis, and I do not accept everyone so I can give my clients my full attention. You need to be ready to do the work to get the results you want.
Don't just take my word for it. Here's what some of my wonderful clients say:
“When can I start?”
First, you need book a free 45 minute Transformation Call with me to see if we would be the right fit, then I will send you the intake forms, your invoice and we schedule our sessions!
I’ll be with you during the whole process, you are not alone anymore and you won’t be suffering in silence.
Everything that happens in session is fully confidential, the only exceptions are if I feel that you or somebody else is at risk of serious harm (because your wellbeing and mental health are my priority) or if I need to share something with a supervisor or another trusted colleague if I need another expert opinion. Your details will be kept anonymous and your privacy will be protected.
To your inner sex goddess and living a life filled with pleasure
I know how scary and vulnerable it feels asking for help with sexuality, this is why you can speak to me for 30 minutes for free with no obligation to commit to the full program. If you’re fed up of having no confidence in the bedroom, if you’re fed up of feeling shy and awkward and you’ve tried LITERALLY EVERYTHING else, then I’m here for you.