sex and relationships coach, sex coaching, Lucy Rowett

Release shame, embrace pleasure, create intimacy

Let’s talk about SEX. 
 
Or rather, let’s talk about how you feel in your body, your relationship with pleasure, putting your needs first, voicing what you want, and feeling unashamed. 
 
Because it’s not just about sex, isn’t it? 
 
If it was you would have gotten it all figured out by now. 
 
It’s way more than what you were taught in high school, what you’ve read online, or how many vibrators you own. 
 
If you’re on this page, I bet that like 90% of other women around the world, sex isn’t really working for you. You know that there is more to experience, and that you deserve more pleasure…. but you have no idea where to start or what to do first.
 
Or maybe you’ve already dabbled in some workshops and now you’re hungry to go further. 
 
You want to feel like a grown woman. You want to feel confident in your body, fully connected to your pleasure, and like a sensual goddess. 
 
You’re fed up of feeling like there are cobwebs growing between your legs. You’re fed up of unsatisfying relationships that go nowhere and bleed you dry. 

It feels very scary when you first decide to explore sex. Sex is a topic clouded in so much shame, secrecy, and bucket-loads more shame, that to explore it as a woman can feel overwhelming.

“Will I be called, “A slut?” or a “crazy nympho?”. What if my family find out? What if my faith community finds out?!”

From the first time you tentatively order a vibrator online, to ordering your first book on tantra, to trying your first workshop. It can feel overwhelming and you have no idea where to start.

Here’s what I believe:

When you know your body intimately and know how to give yourself pleasure.

When you love your body exactly as it is, no matter what shape or size it is.

When you love your vulva and can name all the parts without going red in the face.

Your whole world changes, both inside and outside of the bedroom. 

Wherever you are in your journey right now, you may have no idea how you could become that juicy, sensual woman who’s completely comfortable with her body and joyfully runs to bed.

Lucy Rowett, sex goddess, sex and relationships coach, Brighton

If you’re on this page, I want to give you a hug and say a big “well done” for landing on here.

Your path here probably wasn’t easy and I guess you’re feeling confused and nervous about what to do next. Admitting that you are struggling sexually, that there is a problem and you need help can feel very painful, so I want to acknowledge the big step you’ve taken, just now.

You’re here because you know that there is more to sex than what you’re currently having.

You’re worrying if you’re “normal”, and frantically asking yourself why your body isn’t responding the way you want it to.

You’ve got the rest of your life in order: your career, family, finances, staying healthy, now it’s just this final piece of the puzzle… you want to start really enjoying sex again.

Everyone else is having multiple orgasms, marathon lovemaking sessions and are confident lovers, right?

And you want this too.

You WANT to feel confident taking your clothes off with the lights on without worrying about your partner seeing your wobbly bits.

You WANT to actually look forward to going to bed. You want to feel your knickers getting wet and the fluttering of desire at the thought of pouncing on your lover.

You DREAM of getting back that tearing-eachothers’-clothes-off-and-falling-onto-the-floor-in-a-hot-sweaty-mess that you used to have.

You don’t want to feel like you have to act like a porn star in bed; you want to experience real pleasure where you don’t have to fake it.

What’s more, you KNOW that your body is capable of SO much more pleasure than what you’re currently experiencing, which feels just kind of “meh” right now.

sex goddess, sex and relationship coach, Lucy Rowett

“Everyone else is having amazing sex, so why can’t I??”

Admitting that sex is difficult for you and that you need help isn’t easy. You may feel ashamed and like a failure as a woman because you just don’t enjoy sex anymore.

Before I tell you more about me, I want to let you into a little secret:

You think that everyone else is having epic sex, every day, with multiple orgasms? It’s a lie.

Yes, sex everywhere. You know that SEX SELLS, You can go and buy some gorgeous lingerie and a rampant rabbit. You can read “10 tips to give him amazing oral sex” or “5 secrets to blow her mind in bed”. You can try watching porn to see if it gives you a tickle.

I would hazard a guess that at least 75% of people feel unhappy and unsatisfied in the bedroom. That’s 3 out of 4 people.

This is how I can help you

Lucy Rowett, sex coach, sex and relationship coach in Brighton

Hi, I’m Lucy.

I’m a Sex, Intimacy, and Relationship coach and a clinical sexologist. I’m also writer, empath and passionate pleasure advocate from Brighton who’s slightly obsessed with tea.
 
I am trained in clinical sexology; which is the study of human sexual behaviour and how we think and feel about it. 
 
Before I was a Sex Coach, I felt just as confused about sex, pleasure, and intimacy as you may be right now. 
 
I was completely disconnected from my body because I grew up in the Church where sexuality was something “dirty”, “dangerous”, and we had to suppress our “ungodly desires”. 
 
If you’ve ever heard of “the purity movement”, I was completely immersed in it.
 
Fast forward 8 years of exploration in the world of spirituality, Tantra, personal development and finally, clinical sexology. Let’s say I had my fair share of bumps and heartbreaks, and also pure ecstasy, surrender, and awakening.
 
I have trained with leaders in this field, received the BEST in sexology training and have a whole network of amazing professionals I can call my colleagues and friends. 
 
My approach is down to earth and holistic- but I won’t get too “woo” on you or tell you to “embrace your feminine energy”.
 
What’s more, I’ve got real credentials to back it up too.
 
I’m a professional member of the World Association of Sex Coaches (WASC) and the Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists (ASIS) and am fully insured. 
 
Why? Because I care about my work and I care about your transformation. I’ve done the work and love what I do. 
 
I’m proudly sex-positive, kink-friendly, pro-eroticism, and LGBTQIA+ friendly.
 

You can learn more about me here.

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ASIS, sex coaching Eastbourne, Brighton, sex coach, Lucy Rowett

Because I want to help you to have it all.

Love. Passionate Sex. Intimate Connection. Playfulness. And lots and lots of pleasure.

My clients tend to identify as creative, spiritually minded women who are free spirits. They’ve usually done work in therapy before, but they never worked with sexuality. 

This is for you if:

  • You feel about as far away from feeling sexy and sensual as you are from turning into a giraffe!
  • You feel confused about your body because you received negative messages about sex, sexuality, and your body growing up.
  • You feel like the spark has disappeared in your relationship and you want it back!
  • You and your partner are constantly fighting because you’re struggling with sex. 
  • Your needs and desires go to the bottom of the pile of your never-ending “To-Do” list.
  • You know that you want to experience MORE pleasure, MORE ecstasy, MORE desire… just basically MORE, but have no idea where to start or what to do first.
  • You’re experiencing pain and discomfort on penetration.
  • You’re struggling to be a sexual woman after having kids and you feel you’ve lost your identity. 
  • You’ve already done the work in therapy, now this is the final hurdle you want to work through.
  • It’s now or never. You’re totally ready to transform your relationship with your body and your pleasure. 

This is where the Ultimate Sex Goddess Program will help you.

We’re going to work together to radically transform your sex life, your relationship and how you feel about your body. We’ll be working either face to face in Brighton or Eastbourne, United Kingdom, or via Zoom if you’re further afield.

I’m not going to just give you “6 sex tips to blow his mind”, tell you to just go buy some sexy lingerie or show you some acrobatic new sex positions to “get you in the mood”.

Why? Because you can do a Google search and find this already, and I bet you’ve tried this, too.

I’m also not going to be standing in your bedroom, actually watching you have sex or force you to do anything that is a firm “NO” for you.

The process may feel a little strange, and I will ask you to gently push your comfort zones and bounce your sexual boundaries. We’ll be diving into areas that usually nobody talks about. I’ll need you to be brutally honest with me, and for you to be willing to feel vulnerable.

Because that’s where the healing occurs.

What the process will include:

We’ll dive into what’s really blocking you from experiencing the sex, love and intimacy you really, truly desire.

We’ll be working with all of the parts of you.

Mind

Your self-talk, your beliefs, what you think about your body or your sexual performance, your fantasies, limiting thought patterns or negative thoughts.

Emotions

How you FEEL! Feelings you carry from the past, how you feel about your body or your body image, what emotions you suppress or express, how you express your emotions and how you handle intimacy. It’s how you let love in or keep love out.

Body and Body Image issues

Your physical self. How you feel comfortable or not comfortable in your body, your sexual response cycle, knowing your anatomy, learning skills to be a successful lover (by yourself or with a partner).

Energy

Sex is about ENERGY! Think of your desire like life force energy so if your libido has disappeared so has your hunger for life. You can think of energy like the build up, the anticipation, your sexual expression and how you infuse your sexual energy into your life. Energy is often an overlooked part of sexuality and in my one on one work I observe your energy patterns.

Spirit

Your essence of who you are. This isn’t necessarily about a particular spiritual or religious belief, it’s however you interpret sex and spirit. It’s the transcendence that comes from peak sexual experiences, esoteric moments, sacred sexuality and how you express your inner self through sexuality. I see sex as a pathway to experience the divine and can help guide you through the process to find your inner path.

Lucy Rowett, sex goddess, sex and relationships coach, Brighton

Here’s how it works:

  • In-depth and transformational 90 minute sessions
  • Guided meditations and breathing exercises
  • Downloadable PDFs and worksheets
  • Email support
  • Access to my exclusive membership program: The Liberated Collective

I work for either 3 months or 6 months. 

We’ll spend 90 minutes each fortnight getting crystal clear on where your bedroom blocks are, and then give you fun and most importantly, actionable tools to transform them.

Sessions are completely tailored to you and your needs, you set the pace. We could be doing breathing exercises, body-based exercises, movement, journaling, artwork, checking out resources or even a field trip!

Everything will be fully clothed, so wear whatever feels comfy. There won’t be any weirdness, I’ll be your friend and companion who’s going to cheerlead you on your path of sexual self-discovery. No questions or secrets are off limits, nothing is going to freak me out and I will definitely NOT judge you.

Awesome, right? Think of me as your sexual fairy godmother, here to give you the gift that you’ve actually always had all along: Your joy, bliss, and juiciness!

I take on new clients on a very limited basis, and I do not accept everyone so I can give my clients my full attention. You need to be ready to do the work to get the results you want. 

Don't just take my word for it. Here's what some of my wonderful clients say:

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sex goddess, sex and relationship coach, Lucy Rowett

“When can I start?”

First, you need book a free 45 minute Transformation Call with me to see if we would be the right fit, then I will send you the intake forms, your invoice and we schedule our sessions!

I’ll be with you during the whole process, you are not alone anymore and you won’t be suffering in silence.

Everything that happens in session is fully confidential, the only exceptions are if I feel that you or somebody else is at risk of serious harm (because your wellbeing and mental health are my priority) or if I need to share something with a supervisor or another trusted colleague if I need another expert opinion. Your details will be kept anonymous and your privacy will be protected. 

To your inner sex goddess and living a life filled with pleasure

Lucy xx

P.S.

I know how scary and vulnerable it feels asking for help with sexuality, this is why you can speak to me for 30 minutes for free with no obligation to commit to the full program. If you’re fed up of having no confidence in the bedroom, if you’re fed up of feeling shy and awkward and you’ve tried LITERALLY EVERYTHING else, then I’m here for you.