Hi, I’m Lucy

I’m a 20-something, tea loving, sex-positive woman who works with people to improve their sex lives. I live in Brighton, the most sex-positive city in the United Kingdom.

I’m a Clinical Sexologist, Certified Sex Coach, empath and a writer. You can check out my writings on my other site here.

I work with your sex life.

Here’s the thing: most therapists, healthcare practitioners, educators, teachers, and clergy will NOT talk about sex. Well, not always in a way that’s informed, non-judgmental and sex-positive. 

This is where I fill the gap. 

I work with people of all ages and all genders- men, women, trans folk and non binary folk. I’m sex-positive, body positive, LGBTQIA+ friendly, kink friendly, sex worker friendly and relationship diverse friendly.


I’m fascinated by human sexuality

I love swotting up on the latest news and I pride myself on being non-judgmental. I’m a passionate advocate for sexual rights and sexual freedoms– endorsing the Declaration of Sexual Rights by the World Association of Sexual Health. I regularly go to sex-positive events and love networking with other sexuality professionals. 

I’m a safe person to talk about sex with

I’m easy to talk to, and will make you feel comfortable. I’m open-minded and non-judgmental. What’s more I embrace the full spectrum of sexual and gender diversity. I also have a terrible sense of humour. Our sessions will include lots of laughter, so be prepared to not take yourself too seriously. Think of me as your co-conspirator to create your sexual happiness again. 

I believe that working with your sexuality is working with the whole of YOU. Your sexuality is a key part of who you are as a human and I want you to reconnect to this.

I work with your Mind, Emotions, Body, Energy and Spirit.

And if I think that I can’t help you? No problem, I’ll happily refer you to someone who can. 

Ready to get started? Click the button below to book a free 30 minute Transformation Call with me to ask any questions you like about sex, dating, and relationships.

Professional Bio

I’m a Clinical Sexologist and Certified Sex Coach. I was trained by the pioneer of sex coaching, Dr. Patti Britton at Sex Coach U.

I’m a professional member of the World Association of Sex Coaches and the Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists.

I’m fully insured and engage in regular supervision.

I am proud to have completed 2 live SAR (Sexual Attitude Reassessment and Restructuring) trainings, that is required by AASECT for certification. I have 220 online AASECT CEs.

I have trained in the psychic arts, energy healing and in counselling. I’m always continuing my professional development to give my clients the best possible care.

Lucy Rowett, sex coach, sex and relationship coach in Brighton

Here’s some non sex related trivia about me:

  • I adore languages and speak French and Spanish fluently.
  • If I’m not looking up the latest news and articles in sexuality, I’m looking at guinea pig videos. I’m obsessed with these fluffy little creatures.
  • I’m also obsessed with tea. Check my Instagram where I’m posting regular pictures about the tea I’m drinking.
  • I love latin dancing- salsa, bachata and kizomba
  • To relax I love reading trashy historical fiction or watching historical documentaries. I love to lose myself, imagining being in a castle wearing a flowing dress. 
  • I’m always wearing colourful clothes, or black. Life’s too short to wear clothes that don’t flatter you.

Ready to make your sex life awesome again?

Feel confident in bed, release your shame and start enjoying your sexuality again. Whether you’re single, in a couple or in a non-monogamous relationship, I can help you enhance your sexual connection.

I provide a safe and confidential space for you to talk about anything that’s concerning you. 

Learn more about how we can work together here.

One last word

Sex coaching is not erotic entertainment, and I do not provide erotic services. If this is what you’re looking for, there is no shame in that and I will gladly refer you to some great resources. But this is not what I offer, sorry guys.

Any inappropriate messages or pictures (and yes, that especially means dick pics!) will be swiftly deleted and blocked. A girl’s got to look after herself these days #MeToo