Hi, I’m Lucy
I’m a 20-something, tea-loving woman who helps people create the love, intimacy, and passion that you really want in your relationship. I am an all around sex-geek and proudly sex-positive.
I live in Brighton, the most sex-positive city in the United Kingdom. And I am a clinical sexologist and sex and relationship coach.
Yes, really. It’s a real thing!
I was trained in clinical sexology and co-active coaching, by the original pioneer of sex coaching, Dr. Patti Britton.
I’m not a sex therapist or a psychotherapist, I am a sex coach.
But what does that mean?
Sexology is the study of human sexual behaviour, and how we think and feel about it. It’s holistic, person-centered, future-focused and empowering.
It means I won’t shame you for wanting what you want. I will give you a safe space to explore your desires, sensuality, and sexuality.
It means I know the limits of what I can work with, and I know when to refer you to someone else.
It’s not about giving you “10 sex tips to blow his mind”, or about how to give the perfect blowjob. Because anyone can teach you that, it just takes a quick google search.
I also won’t be asking you to embody your feminine energy or masculine energy. And I won’t get all woo woo with you- although I work with your spirituality too.
I help you to have more satisfying, more intimate, and more passionate sex
Right now you feel completely disconnected. Disconnected from your body, your eroticism and from your partner. You’re frustrated because your intimate connection goes to the bottom of the pile of your never-ending “to-do” list, and you’ve got no idea where to start again.
You may have already worked with a therapist, couples’ therapist or coach, but they may have left out what’s really causing you pain: your sexuality. Or maybe you went to your GP, and were told to just relax and have a glass of wine, and it will all be fine. Maybe you’ve been frantically searching on Google and have fallen down the rabbit hole.
If that has happened to you, then I’m so sorry, but you’re in the right place now.
It’s shocking that most therapists, healthcare practitioners, educators, teachers, and clergy will NOT talk about sex. And if they do, it’s not always in a way that’s informed, non-judgmental and sex-positive. This is where I fill the gap.
I work with people of all ages and all genders- men, women, trans folk and non-binary folk. Think of me as your sexual fairy godmother.
I’m fascinated by everything about sex, desire, sensuality, eroticism, and intimacy
I love swotting up on the latest news and I pride myself on being non-judgmental. I’m a passionate advocate for sexual rights and sexual freedoms– endorsing the Declaration of Sexual Rights by the World Association of Sexual Health. I regularly present at talks and events, host workshops, am featured in the media, go to sex-positive events and love networking with other sexuality professionals.
I’m a safe person to talk about sex with
I’m easy to talk to and will do everything I can to help you feel comfortable. I’m open-minded, non-judgmental and empathetic. What’s more, I embrace the full spectrum of sexual and gender diversity. I also have a terrible sense of humour which means our sessions will include lots of laughter, so be prepared to not take yourself too seriously. Think of me as your co-conspirator to create your sexual happiness again.
I believe that working with your sexuality is working with the whole of YOU. Your sexuality, sensuality, pleasure, and eroticism are key parts of who you are as a human, so let me help you find them again.
I work with your Mind, Emotions, Body, Energy and Spirit.
And if I think that I can’t help you? No problem, I’ll happily refer you to someone who can.
Ready to get started? Learn more about my programs for women below.
I’m a Clinical Sexologist and Certified Sex Coach. I was trained by the pioneer of sex coaching, Dr. Patti Britton at Sex Coach U.
I’m a professional member of the World Association of Sex Coaches and the Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists. You can also view my listing on the Brighton and Hove Therapy Hub here.
I’m fully insured and engage in regular ongoing professional development. I make it my business to keep up to date with the latest research, ideas, and therapy styles in human sexuality.
I am proud to have completed 3 live SAR (Sexual Attitude Reassessment and Restructuring) trainings, including as a co-facilitator that is required by AASECT for certification. I have 220 online AASECT CEs.
I have trained in the psychic arts, energy healing and in counselling. I’m always continuing my professional development to give you the best possible care.
Here’s some non sex related trivia about me:
- I adore languages and speak French and Spanish fluently.
- If I’m not looking up the latest news and articles in sexuality, I’m looking at guinea pig videos- I’m just so obsessed with these fluffy little creatures!
- I’m also obsessed with tea. Check my Instagram where I post regular pictures about the tea I’m drinking.
- I love latin dancing- salsa, bachata and kizomba
- To relax I love reading trashy historical fiction or watching historical documentaries. I love to lose myself, imagining being in a castle wearing a flowing dress.
- I love experimenting with fashion and always wearing lots of colours, patterns, or just plain black.
Ready to get your intimate life back on track again?
Gain sexual confidence, explore your sensuality, and restore a happy bedroom. Whether you’re single, in a couple or in a non-monogamous relationship, I can help you rekindle your desire and fall in love with your body again.
I provide a safe and confidential space for you to talk about anything that’s concerning you.
One last word
What I do is not erotic entertainment, nor do I provide erotic services. If this is what you’re looking for, there is no shame in that and I will gladly refer you to some great resources. But this is not what I offer, sorry guys. Any inappropriate messages or pictures (and yes, that especially means dick pics!) will be swiftly deleted and blocked.
Sending dick pics to any woman that you don’t know and has never asked for them is completely not OK. Consent is one of my core values and something that I teach all of my clients. Asking for and establishing enthusiastic consent is the bedrock to a happy bedroom and rocking relationships- both sexual and non-sexual.
May all of your erotic adventures be based on consent, concern, and mutual respect.
Thank you for understanding.