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VIDEO: How To Love Your Vulva (And Why It Matters So Much)

VIDEO: How To Love Your Vulva (And Why It Matters So Much)

How do you love your vulva? Why does it matter anyway?

I did this live stream in The Intimately Empowered Woman and it’s here for you to watch on my YouTube channel.

Key points:

  • Some of my own story from leaving Christianity to entering “the sex world”
  • Why it’s not enough to know that vulvas aren’t bad, but to learn how bloody amazing they are
  • Why learning to love your vulva isn’t just a cognitive process of, “Ok, Vulvas are good”, but you need practical and embodied exercises to be able to feeeeel it
  • Why self-pleasuring and knowing your vulva is the ultimate empowerment because nobody grew up in a pleasure-affirming society
  • Why some womxn can’t even say the word, “vulva” or “vagina” without feeling uncomfortable
  • Do you still feel uncomfortable or a sense of guilt when you self-pleasure?
  • Your sexuality, your body, your pleasure is your own first
  • How much do you actually feel that your vulva is connected to your body?
  • Why you need to be in affirming and positive community to help you reframe it
  • Why you will have internalized negative messages about vulvas even if you had positive parents
  • When you can actually feel your vulva connected to your body
  • Why sexual healing is soul retrieval

Watch it on my YouTube Channel

My hope and prayer is that when you come to do the work on expanding your pleasure potential and learning to love sex, that while you may initially start because you want to be more connected to your partner, you then realize it’s for you first.

How you feel connected, turned on, and whole on every level.

That you feel more like you than ever, that you feel like a missing piece has been retrieved.

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Lucy stands smiling with her hand touching her chest, wearing a blue dress, standing next to a light blue house in BrightonLucy Rowett, CSC – Pronouns: She/Her/Her

Lucy Rowett, CSC, is a certified sexologist and sex coach helping women and vulva owners release sexual shame and reclaim pleasure. Working extensively with clients from faith backgrounds and beyond, she hosts The Naked and Unashamed Life podcast and is the resident sex coach at UK contraception platform, The Lowdown.

She is a resident sex coach at contraception platform, The Lowdown, and she is regularly quoted in the media for her expertise in sexual health and wellness, pleasure, and sexual shame- including Kinkly, The O Diaries, Men’s Health, The Sun, Insider, and Fabulous Magazine.

Struggling with low libido, shame around sex, or feeling stuck in old beliefs from purity culture? You’re not broken — you’re just disconnected. I help women and vulva havers gently release shame, awaken real desire, and reclaim pleasure on their own terms.
 
 

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No fancy spiritual jargon you don’t understand and absolutely NO pressure to perform or have an orgasm.

Just a guided space to help you come back to your body, your desire, and yourself.

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