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Who I Work Best With

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If you’re new here, this is the kind of woman or person with a vulva who I work best with, and if you’ll get the most out of being in my digital space– be it on my website, my newsletter, or on social media. 

Here are the kinds of women and vulva havers I work best with- be it in Orgasmic Liberation Live, The Shameless Woman or working together 1:1.

Learn more about working together 1:1 here.

Who are you?


You are a smart, passionate, creative, and soulful woman/femme.

You were probably either top of your class in school, a high achiever, or the day dreamer at the back who got told off for drawing.

You are highly ambitious but also highly sensitive and emotional, and this causes you internal conflict because you don’t know what box you fit into.

You’re a feminist, but you struggle to reconcile this and often feel like a “bad feminist”.

Social issues matter to you, you want to do better and make the world a better place.

And yet you also want to be irreverent, selfish, and push your boundaries.

Shoutout to my fellow neurodivergants and ADHD women!

You really want to feel sexy and play with your edges too.

You may have been brought up in a religious or highly conservative environment, where you learned that your body is something to keep under control, that your sexual desires were sinful, and that you had to be a Good Girl to make a Good Wife one day.

And even though you threw that baby out with the bathwater long ago, your body doesn’t agree with you.

You’ve done so much of, “the work” in therapy or personal development, and yet sex is a place that feels overwhelming to you.

You’ve worked hard to feel confident in every other area of your life, but in bed, you just freeze up and can’t feel anything.

You’ve tried to “boost your libido”, you’ve tried sex toys, you’ve tried massage, but nothing really works.

Now you’re here.

You like a bit of woo, or a lot of woo, but you also want to keep it real and live in your body, in this world.

You have no time for dogma, guru mentality, or generic statements.

You want sex to feel good, but deeper than that, you really crave to feel like sex is something that is part of you, that it is your birthright.

You crave deep satisfaction, toe curling pleasure, and a confidence that you feel deep in your bones in your sexual wholeness.

You want to feel that your sexuality can be soulful and connected to spirit.

You want to reclaim your true erotic power and full pleasure potential now, and for the rest of your life.

Maybe you just want a really, really good f*ck too.

You want to reclaim your true erotic power and full pleasure potential now, and for the rest of your life.

And you want to do it with shamelessness.

You’re in the right place, let’s get started.

Orgasmic Liberation Live starts on Tuesday August 16th.

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Lucy stands smiling with her hand touching her chest, wearing a blue dress, standing next to a light blue house in BrightonLucy Rowett, CSC – Pronouns: She/Her/Her

Lucy Rowett, CSC, is a certified sexologist and sex coach helping women and vulva owners release sexual shame and reclaim pleasure. Working extensively with clients from faith backgrounds and beyond, she hosts The Naked and Unashamed Life podcast and is the resident sex coach at UK contraception platform, The Lowdown.

She is a resident sex coach at contraception platform, The Lowdown, and she is regularly quoted in the media for her expertise in sexual health and wellness, pleasure, and sexual shame- including Kinkly, The O Diaries, Men’s Health, The Sun, Insider, and Fabulous Magazine.

Struggling with low libido, shame around sex, or feeling stuck in old beliefs from purity culture? You’re not broken — you’re just disconnected. I help women and vulva havers gently release shame, awaken real desire, and reclaim pleasure on their own terms.
 
 

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