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You’ve done the inner work: now it’s time to feel it. I help high-achieving, soulful women and vulva owners melt shame, awaken pleasure, and reclaim their erotic power.

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Your sexuality isn’t broken. It’s waiting to be reclaimed.

I help sensitive, high-achieving women and vulva owners overcome low libido, religious sexual shame, and numbness — and reconnect with real, soul-deep pleasure. Without having to fake it, run off to a tantra retreat, or end your relationship.

Ready to come alive sexually?

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Who I help

You’re in the right place if…

  • Your libido is a distant memory and you want to stop pushing your partner away
  • You’ve done all the therapy, workshops, and personal development, but sex still feels confusing, flat, or distant
  • You crave soulful sex, but freeze up in bed — or just feel nothing at all
  • You got damaged by purity culture or conservative religious teachings about sex, now you’re ready to heal
  • You’re sensitive, high-performing, and secretly exhausted by the pressure to be “good”

 

You’re not broken, it’s all there inside you, let’s change that.

WORK WITH ME

Let's work together

You’re ready for this. If you feel the spark, let’s talk. I offer 1:1 packages, group programs, digital courses, and workshops and live events.

Sex, Pleasure, and Intimacy Coaching For Women and Vulva Owners

Workshops and Events

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Why Book Now?

Private coaching with me isn’t just about your sex life. Or even your relationship.

It’s a whole life upgrade. It’s about reclaiming your body, shedding shame, and discovering your full, radiant erotic self — in the bedroom and your whole life too. The impact on your relationship or marriage is the delicious cherry on top.

You'll learn how to:

  • Get out of your head and into your body
  • Ask for what you want — and enjoy receiving it
  • Gently melt shame and numbness so that your body becomes your ally
  • Feel confident, sexy, and deeply connected — on your own terms, without needing to fake it or perform
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Start with this free meditation

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Events

Your Body Your Boundaries: How To Advocate For Yourself in Intimate Medical Exams

ONLINE: A workshop for women and vulva owners on how to prepare for and powerfully advocate for yourself in intimate medical procedures like smear tests, IUD fittings, and maternity appointments.
Tickets here
"Lucy "got it", whatever I was struggling with. Working with Lucy transformed me. I FEEL deeply connected to myself. I THINK differently. I SEE the world differently. Lucy is such a gift. All of her personal challenges, growth, and training have blended uniquely where persons like myself are immensely blessed by her care, knowledge and coaching."
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Since I started my practice in 2016, I have helped my clients to...

  • Find dates and hookups that aligned with their values
  • Find her sexual voice in a new relationship and ask for what she wanted instead of just defaulting to pleasing
  • Feel more free and confident in their bodies
  • Be able to extend their orgasms instead of trying to squeeze them out
  • Feel like their vulvas were something beautiful rather than something ugly
  • Be able to set much healthier boundaries in sex and relationships
  • Discover their kinks that they were too scared to explore before
  • Embrace the things they needed for intimacy to feel good to them that they worried were cringey
  • Have open and honest conversations with their partner about what they actually wanted
  • “Feel like a whole person in the bedroom, like there were 2 of us instead of just my boyfriend doing it to me.”

Want this for you too?

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"My time with Lucy was absolutely illuminating and life changing for me and my relationship with myself. Lucy helped me recognize that I am important and that my wants and my needs are very important. I'm a bad ass babe that deserves the best! I learned that sex is something never thought to us growing up and is a skill to be learned. Sex is not something to be ashamed of but something absolutely yummy and beautiful, Lucy helped me see this."
Andrea, Puerto Rico

Articles

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Ready to get out of your head and feel real pleasure?

Download your free 15-minute guided meditation to reconnect your heart to your vulva so you can actually start FEELING real pleasure in sex instead of faking it or trying to perform.

No fancy spiritual jargon you don’t understand and absolutely NO pressure to perform or have an orgasm.

Just a guided space to help you come back to your body, your desire, and yourself.

YES I WANT THIS!