Ready to get out of your head, release your inhibitions, and gain the authentic sexual confidence you know you are capable of?
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Hi, I'm Lucy
I’m a sex and intimacy coach for smart, passionate, and soulful women and vulva owners.
I’m a sex geek and passionately believe that your pleasure is your birthright.
I’m here to help you embrace your erotic potential and create the intimacy you truly desire in your life, and relationship.
Let’s get to know each other and start your journey to sexual and relationship happiness.
Who You Are
You are a smart, passionate, creative, and soulful woman or vulva owner.
You were probably either top of your class in school, a high achiever, or the day dreamer at the back who got told off for drawing.
You are highly ambitious but also highly sensitive and emotional, and this causes you internal conflict because you don’t know what box you fit into.
You’re a feminist, but you struggle to reconcile this and often feel like a “bad feminist”.
Social issues matter to you, you want to do better and make the world a better place.
And yet you also want to be irreverent, selfish, and push your boundaries.
You really want to feel sexy and play with your edges too.
You may have been brought up in a religious or highly conservative environment, where you learned that your body is something to keep under control, that your sexual desires were sinful, and that you had to be a Good Girl to make a Good Wife one day.
And even though you threw that baby out with the bathwater long ago, your body doesn’t agree with you.
You’ve done so much of, “the work” in therapy or personal development, and yet sex is a place that feels overwhelming to you.
You’ve worked hard to feel confident in every other area of your life, but in bed, you just freeze up and can’t feel anything.
You’ve tried to “boost your libido”, you’ve tried sex toys, you’ve tried massage, but nothing really works.
Now you’re here.
You like a bit of woo, or a lot of woo, but you also want to keep it real and live in your body, in this world.
You have no time for dogma, guru mentality, or generic statements.
You want sex to feel good, but deeper than that, you really crave to feel like sex is something that is part of you, that it is your birthright.
You crave deep satisfaction, toe curling pleasure, and a confidence that you feel deep in your bones in your sexual wholeness.
You want to feel that your sexuality can be soulful and connected to spirit.
You want to reclaim your true erotic power and full pleasure potential now, and for the rest of your life.
Maybe you just want a really, really good f*ck too.
You want to reclaim your true erotic power and full pleasure potential now, and for the rest of your life.
And you want to do it with shamelessness.
You’re in the right place, let’s get started.
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Soul Sex Circle: Sex Positive Women's Circle
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For women, nonbinary vulva havers, and transwomen. If you are of the female experience, you are warmly welcomed.
Soul Sex Circle is for you if you want to celebrate your sexuality and spiritual connection in a way that feels delicious and doable to you.
What my clients say
"My time with Lucy was absolutely illuminating and life changing for me and my relationship with myself. Lucy helped me recognize that I am important and that my wants and my needs are very important. I'm a bad ass babe that deserves the best! I learned that sex is something never thought to us growing up and is a skill to be learned. Sex is not something to be ashamed of but something absolutely yummy and beautiful, Lucy helped me see this."
"Lucy "got it", whatever I was struggling with. Working with Lucy transformed me. I FEEL deeply connected to myself. I THINK differently. I SEE the world differently. Lucy is such a gift. All of her personal challenges, growth, and training have blended uniquely where persons like myself are immensely blessed by her care, knowledge and coaching."
"My experience working with Lucy genuinely has changed how I look at sex and intimacy. I am not abnormal! I have just had traumas that have made me disconnect from body. I now have tools and ways of looking at sex in a completely new light. And some of these are such simplistic things. I thought I was the only one that doesn't have sexual thoughts. I have learnt that for some people they need a stimuli for any sensation or feeling to arise. Game changer just knowing this. Also the fact I am turned on by kindness and someone's heart not their dick or how big it is or what they look like. Thank you Lucy"
"This was an incredibly informative, healing and sensitively-led course, and Lucy went above and beyond to help us deconstruct some damaging received ideas with carefully planned modules and heaps of resources. Her embodied movement sessions really helped shift the work from brain to body and was a unique part of the experience that I’ve found lacking elsewhere. Working with a coach in a small group did lots more for me than reading and podcasting alone, and I would really recommend it."
