Your sexuality isn’t broken. It’s waiting to be reclaimed.
I help high-achieving and sensitive women and vulva owners who’ve done the work in personal development already to overcome low libido, religious sexual shame, and numbness — and reconnect with real, soul-deep pleasure and love your body. Without having to fake it, run off to a tantra retreat, or end your relationship.
Ready to come alive sexually?
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You're in the right place if...
- Your libido is a distant memory and you want to stop pushing your partner away
- You’ve done all the therapy, workshops, and personal development, but sex still feels confusing, flat, or distant
- You crave soulful sex, but freeze up in bed — or just feel nothing at all
- You got damaged by purity culture or conservative religious teachings about sex, now you’re ready to heal
- You’ve done the inner work in therapy and personal development: now it’s time to work with your body
You’re not broken, it’s all there inside you, let’s change that.
Who I am
I’m Lucy, a Certified Sex Coach and Sexologist
- My approach is trauma-aware, embodied, holistic, and evidence-based
- Helping you connect to your wise body, reawaken your pleasure, and reclaim your sexuality on your own terms
- For women and vulva owners who’ve done the work in therapy and personal development, now your sexuality is the final hurdle
- Member of Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists (ASIS) and European Federation of Sexologists (EFS)
“I’ve regained my orgasm! Now I’m taking up space and returning to my bolshy, outrageous self!”
Why Book Now?
Private coaching with me isn’t just about your sex life. Or even your relationship.
It’s a whole life upgrade. It’s about reclaiming your body, shedding shame, and discovering your full, radiant erotic self — in the bedroom and your whole life too. The impact on your relationship or marriage is the delicious cherry on top.
You'll learn how to:
- Get out of your head and into your body
- Ask for what you want — and enjoy receiving it
- Gently melt shame and numbness so that your body becomes your ally
- Feel confident, sexy, and deeply connected — on your own terms, without needing to fake it or perform
Since I started my practice in 2016, I have helped my clients to...
- Feel safe to explore energy orgasms after purity culture shame
- Find her sexual voice in a new relationship and ask for what she wanted instead of just defaulting to pleasing
- Have her first orgasm in 10 years
- Feel more free and confident in their bodies
- Be able to extend their orgasms instead of trying to squeeze them out
- Feel like their vulvas were something beautiful rather than something ugly
- Be able to set much healthier boundaries in sex and relationships
- Discover their kinks that they were too scared to explore before
- Embrace the things they needed for intimacy to feel good to them that they worried were cringey
- Have open and honest conversations with their partner about what they actually wanted
- “Feel like a whole person in the bedroom, like there were 2 of us instead of just my boyfriend doing it to me.”
How we can work together
Whether you want to re-ignite your libido, release old sexual conditioning, or finally feel at home in your body — I’ve got you.
Explore my 1:1 coaching, courses, and programs designed to help you reclaim your sexual self.
Let’s do it now.
Sex, Pleasure, and Intimacy Coaching For Women and Vulva Owners
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Reignite Your Desire: A Masterclass for Women and V Owners with Low Libido
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Want to boost your libido? You need start resting for better sex
While there are many changes you can make that I recommend all the time—like exploring your turn-ons, reviewing your medication, menopause support, understanding how your desire works, creating more safety in your body, debunking myths about sex, and desire more to name just a few—there’s one solution that not many women truly consider.
The best thing about it is that you don’t necessarily have to spend much—or any—money on it either!
It’s rest.
Everything You Need to Know About Low Libido in Women: Causes, Myths, and How to Get Your Desire Back Naturally
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If you’ve been putting off your next smear test or IUD fitting, read this
TW: I’ll be discussing medical trauma and potentially traumatic gynecological experiences. I was sitting in a cafe in Brighton and I had a seat free in front
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