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Hi, I'm Lucy

I’m a sex and intimacy coach for smart, passionate, and soulful women and vulva owners. 

I’m a sex geek and passionately believe that your pleasure is your birthright. 

I’m here to help you embrace your erotic potential and create the intimacy you truly desire in your life, and relationship.

Let’s get to know each other and start your journey to sexual and relationship happiness. 

Who You Are

You are a smart, passionate, creative, and soulful woman or vulva owner.

You were probably either top of your class in school, a high achiever, or the day dreamer at the back who got told off for drawing.

You are highly ambitious but also highly sensitive and emotional, and this causes you internal conflict because you don’t know what box you fit into.

You’re a feminist, but you struggle to reconcile this and often feel like a “bad feminist”.

Social issues matter to you, you want to do better and make the world a better place.

And yet you also want to be irreverent, selfish, and push your boundaries.

You really want to feel sexy and play with your edges too.

You may have been brought up in a religious or highly conservative environment, where you learned that your body is something to keep under control, that your sexual desires were sinful, and that you had to be a Good Girl to make a Good Wife one day.

And even though you threw that baby out with the bathwater long ago, your body doesn’t agree with you.

You’ve done so much of, “the work” in therapy or personal development, and yet sex is a place that feels overwhelming to you.

You’ve worked hard to feel confident in every other area of your life, but in bed, you just freeze up and can’t feel anything.

You’ve tried to “boost your libido”, you’ve tried sex toys, you’ve tried massage, but nothing really works.

Now you’re here.

You like a bit of woo, or a lot of woo, but you also want to keep it real and live in your body, in this world.

You have no time for dogma, guru mentality, or generic statements.

You want sex to feel good, but deeper than that, you really crave to feel like sex is something that is part of you, that it is your birthright.

You crave deep satisfaction, toe curling pleasure, and a confidence that you feel deep in your bones in your sexual wholeness.

You want to feel that your sexuality can be soulful and connected to spirit.

You want to reclaim your true erotic power and full pleasure potential now, and for the rest of your life.

Maybe you just want a really, really good f*ck too.

You want to reclaim your true erotic power and full pleasure potential now, and for the rest of your life.

And you want to do it with shamelessness.

You’re in the right place, let’s get started.

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What my clients say

Lucy is a great coach. Through gentle and holistic therapy, firmly grounded in a great knowledge of her subject, Lucy will give you the time and treatment necessary to get over your issues and hangups, and to become as sexually vital as you can be. Her methods are unhurried and friendly and inspire great confidence to have a go and try what she says. Her techniques are simple, effective and fun and, most importantly get great results. Highly recommended!

DM, North Wales, UK

I was not sure what to expect t when I first had my video call with Lucy, but straight away I was out at ease an enjoyed the information that was provided in session 1. Lucy really goes out of her way to help you find what you are looking for and more, with helping you to explore different avenues you never realized existed. I had wanted a sex coach to learn things that would have taken me years to lean otherwise, I could not have asked for anybody better than Lucy to help me discover more about myself and the intimate relationship with sex. I would give Lucy 5 star and would always go back to Lucy in the future if more questions pop up. Thanks Lucy

JH, Liverpool, UK

I felt so comfortable and natural working with Lucy on such personal material. She created a loving, safe, nurturing space in which I felt held, and free to talk about anything I needed to. She's also down-to-earth and super friendly! Thank you Lucy 🙂

OBM, London, UK

Lucy really, really knows her stuff. Talking with her I learnt so much and felt totally comfortable about discussing intimate and personal subjects. Thanks for your knowledge and empowering attitude.

HT, Brighton, UK
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